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Thai Etiquette
Most Thai are very forgiving about social
mistakes, but trying to honor Thai standards, shows the Thai that the traveler
has respect for their values. Here are some important taboos whose observance is
prudent, if one does not want to be thought of as "bad mannered". These are a
few things that tourists should keep in mind.
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1. Temper
. However frustrating the
situation, never lose your temper. The person who loses his temper loses face.
Be Thai and just keep calm and smile.!!
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2.
Sensitivity. The Thai are
extremely self-conscious, and hate to be teased, especially in front of their
friends.
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3. Criticism
. Never criticize a Thai
or anything Thai. The Thai are a proud people, and proud of their country.
Criticizing the King or a member of his family could result in you being
hospitalized.
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4. Patience
. The Thai are extremely
patient, and will wait hours for a bus or train without complaint. They just
don't understand Westerners preoccupation with the time. Don't expect Thais to
be punctual - they rarely are. It is practically impossible to get into an
argument with a Thai. They just smile back and wait for the storm to pass.
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5. Modesty
. Most Thais are
extremely modest about nudity, and when undressing will wrap a towel around
them to slip off their trousers. The towel will not be removed until the
firmly tucked up under the sheets. Some more experienced Thais have learnt
that many Farang (Westerner) walk around a hotel room stark naked, but this can and
does embarrass many Thais. Most Thais are part horrified and part fascinated
by Farang men on the beach disporting themselves in thong style swim
wear, and women going topless.
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6. English .
Many Thais can read or write English better than they can speak it. If you
don't understand each other, write it down.
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7. Touching.
Never, never, touch the top of someone's head , even someone you are sleeping
with. The head is the most sacrosanct part of the body. Likewise, the Thai
will be astounded if you touch their feet, as feet are considered dirty and
lowly. Once the relationship is established, you can ask permission to do
these things. Never touch any part of a woman in public, not even holding her
hand. You will see modern young straight Thai lovers holding hands, but they
are imitating Western styles. It is perfectly OK for two men or women to hold
hands, but no assumptions should be made as to their sexuality.
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8. Fingers and
Feet . Never point at
anybody. The feet, being dirty (even if yours are not) should never be used to
point at anything, to stop a rolling coin, to move something aside, or be
placed on furniture, even on the back of the seat in front of you in the bus
or train. Feet should be kept firmly pointing at the ground, even when
sitting. Don't step over anyone - ask them to move, even if they are sleeping
on the pavement..!
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9. Cleanliness
& Attire. The Thai,
however poor, are almost always smartly turned out and well scrubbed.
Westerners strolling into public places wearing beach clothes, being unshaven
or otherwise unkept, cause either amusement or consternation. If visiting a
temple or Royal Palace, shorts and sleeveless shirts or blouses are taboo as
they would most likely be in your country. Including when you are walking on the
street.
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10. Demeanor.
Try to avoid being too high, either in height or manner. When walking past a
group of people sitting down, bow your head, and walk, if possible, behind
them.
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11. Shoes .
Shoes are always removed before entering someone's home or a temple.
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12. Kissing
. Polite Thais never kiss
in public, not even in a restaurant, bar, so wait until you get behind closed
doors.
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